Question #5

What is the meanest thing anyone has ever said to you? Who said it (if you can share that)? How did that affect you?
When I was having my last miscarriage in Sept I had many anonymous posters on my blog accuse me of making it up and being an online troll, and several people attack me on my favorite online site JM. I was destroyed by this. Unfortunately this was the SECOND time I was accused of lying about a miscarriage. It still affects me to this day, I know my way of coping with things is different then most people but it works for me. The first time I just told people it was over and I got accused of lying because I didn't tell more details of what happened. This time I told the whole story with tons of details--same result of being accussed. I just couldn't win. I went so far as to take pictures of my medical documents to Prove my story. I really can't think of a worse thing to have to deal with when going through a misscarriage then having people call you a liar and asking for proof. Just thinking about it makes me want to cry. How has it affected me...well I don't like to post my details as much online about whats going on with my pregnancy, and I try not to be so excited about it online. I keep most my posts and updates to my personal blog instead and I block unknown people from posting on my blog.